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The Most God-Like Thing We Can Do – 2

Written by prollo on October 7, 2011 — Leave a Comment

“This punishment which was inflicted by the majority is sufficient for such a man, so that, on the contrary, you ought rather to forgive and comfort him, lest perhaps such a one be swallowed up with too much sorrow. Therefore I urge you to reaffirm your love to him.” – 2 Corinthians 2:6-8

In case you haven’t heard, forgiveness is important. In fact, our Christian life doesn’t work without it. Jesus forgave us, so it just doesn’t work for us to withhold forgiveness from those who’ve hurt us.

To help you in this forgiveness thing, let me give you the don’ts of forgiveness. First, don’t internalize the hurt. Now, I would be a hypocrite if I said not to personalize it. Just face it, hurt hurts, which makes it pretty impossible not to personalize it. I’m just saying don’t let it affect who you are. Let Christ determine who you are, not your pain.

Second, don’t make it more than it needs to be. In our verse today, Paul is saying that the punishment was more than sufficient for the crime. God’s heart is always as David prayed in Psalm 51 (the psalm he wrote after he committed adultery and murder), “God, restore unto me the joy of Your salvation.” God wants us to be restored, or He wouldn’t have bothered sending Jesus so that we could be forgiven, and we need to pray for restoration for those who hurt us.

Third, don’t miss the opportunity to be merciful. Mercy is not getting what you deserve. James 2:13 says, “For judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment.” Whatever offense you have, mercy wins. And if you want mercy instead of judgment, you’d better give mercy instead of judgment.

Fourth, don’t limit God’s love. Scripture says that love keeps no record of wrongs. If we have God’s love in us then we have to do the same. Don’t limit God’s love working in and through you to forgive.

Fifth, don’t fail the forgiveness test. Forgiveness is a test of our obedience to Christ Jesus, because He didn’t leave us a choice. He didn’t say, “These things you must forgive, but these other things are too terrible to forgive.” No, He said we must forgive, period.

Paul could not rest until this issue of forgiveness was settled. He knew that no one could see Christ in him until it was. What issue do you have unsettled in your life? Choose to forgive today, so that you may be free, and so that others might see Jesus in you.

Prayer –
Lord Jesus,
I know that what’s been done to me doesn’t measure up to what I’ve done to You, and I don’t want to fail the forgiveness test. I choose to forgive those who have hurt me and I extend mercy to them. Please bring restoration! Heal my heart and set me free!
Amen

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The Most God-Like Thing We Can Do – 1

Written by prollo on October 6, 2011 — Leave a Comment

“Now whom you forgive anything, I also forgive. For if indeed I have forgiven anything, I have forgiven that one for your sakes in the presence of Christ.” – 2 Corinthians 2:10

You need oil. Think through your day and notice all the different machines you use. If it has a motor, then it doesn’t work if it runs out of oil.

In our Christian life, we can think of forgiveness like oil – if we don’t have it then our lives simply don’t work. Our lives go nowhere without forgiveness. And I don’t just mean that Jesus has forgiven us, though that’s where it starts; I mean us forgiving others.

Paul writes about forgiveness firsthand in Second Corinthians, as somewhere between First and Second Corinthians, someone attacked him from within that church. Everything about him – his delivery style, personality, message, ministry, and identity – all of it was being publicly discredited and attacked.

Paul was hurt, wounded, ashamed, and embarrassed. His credibility had been destroyed by this guy, so he sends his disciple Titus to handle the situation. Titus returned to Paul and reported that this attacker had repented, and now Paul writes and says to forgive him.

You can imagine yourself in that situation. An insecure coworker is pinning his bad work on you while taking credit for the good things you do, and your boss is buying it. Soon your reputation as a plague to the company spreads and you are alone in trying to clear your name. Or maybe the leader of the neighborhood gossip club plants seeds of doubt in your spouse’s mind regarding your faithfulness.

Maybe these examples are more extreme than anything you’ve experienced, but the fact remains that life is messy and all of us both hurt others and get hurt by others. In that world of hurt, there is only one answer – Forgiveness.

Paul forgave his attacker because he realized the weight of all he had been forgiven by God. Maybe what has happened to you goes far beyond what you feel you have done in your life, but the point here is that God has shown His nature as a forgiving God.

If we are going to say that we belong to God then we have no other choice. We have to forgive, and in forgiving, we’ll find freedom from the hurt.

Prayer –
Lord Jesus,
I have been hurt really deeply, and I’m ready to be free of this pain. I choose to forgive those who have hurt me, and I release the justice to You. Please heal me and set me free!
Amen

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The Best Is Yet Ahead – 2

Written by prollo on October 5, 2011 — Leave a Comment

“Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” – 2 Corinthians 1:3-4

More than one out of every ten Americans is unemployed. Of those who are employed, many are underemployed, and many others are working multiple jobs in order to make ends meet.

On top of this, statistically speaking, financial stress is one of the biggest reasons for marital stress, which means that right now there are probably a whole lot more couples and families than normal who are feeling ready to give up on each other. And not even mentioned in all of this is the shame that is so easy to carry when we feel like we are failing – failing at family, failing at our dreams, failing at even the most seemingly basic things in life.

If you’re in the middle of this, or any other trial, I am certainly not trying to drive you into depression. Rather, quite the opposite, I am here with the good news of the very real comfort that God gives us when we are over our heads in suffering.

The gospel tells us that Jesus suffered and died so that we could be saved, and you know what I think is so encouraging about this? Jesus suffered. Because unlike any other religion, our God suffered, died, came back to life, and now lives forevermore interceding for me in my weaknesses.

Buddha suffered, but he’s dead and can’t help you now. Mohammed suffered, but he’s dead and can’t help you either, and Allah doesn’t care enough about you to bother helping even if he could. No amount of chakra balancing, feng shui, or finding your chi can ever answer your prayers. And don’t even start about Hinduism, that religion in which one of the highest gods is Kali, the goddess of death and destruction.

Hebrews 4:15 says, “For we do not have a High priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.”

Our God is the only God of all comfort. If you need comfort today, He has all the comfort you need at His throne of grace. All you need to do is come before Him today.

Prayer –
Lord Jesus,
Thank You that You suffered so that You can sympathize with me in everything I am going through right now! I cannot keep going through this on my own. I need You to come and comfort me! Please strengthen me and let Your will be done in this trial!
Amen

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The Best Is Yet Ahead – 1

Written by prollo on October 4, 2011 — Leave a Comment

“Blessed by the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” – 2 Corinthians 1:3-4

You got a problem? Yeah, a lot of us do, especially these days. But it’s important for us to not just see our problem. We need to see the purpose behind the problem.

This is really something we need to know, that all of it – all of it! – not just the fun stuff, not just the easy stuff, even the hard, difficult trials and sufferings and pains, all of it is for a purpose. And more than that, we see from today’s verses and the rest of that passage that, while Paul describes five different ways in which we can suffer, he also uses the word “comfort” ten times. He’s doubling down on the comfort of God for every trial and tribulation and suffering and difficulty that we have.

We also know that we’re not alone. It might be easy for us to think that Paul, because he teaches us so much of what we hold as truth today, that he had everything figured out and didn’t go through the suffering that we experience today, but that simply isn’t true.

In fact, he tells us in this passage that his troubles went beyond his strength, that he did not have enough strength to overcome or endure the troubles that were overwhelming his life, so much so that he despaired of life. But he thanked God for all this because it forced him to trust in the God who raises the dead, knowing that his strength was not enough, but that God would still raise him from the “dead” and help him overcome his troubles.

He’s saying that it isn’t over. No matter what you’re facing today, it’s not over. It isn’t the end! He’s saying, “Hold tight, because you might be in tribulation right now, but God’s deliverance is coming. His promises are true. He will be faithful to His Word. And more than anything else, you are sealed with the guarantee of His Spirit.”

That means that God has you taken care of. He has a plan, and He sees you on the other side of what you’re going through.

Here’s the good news today: You don’t have to have the strength; you just have to have the faith and hope to stick with God and follow Him through the trial till His promises come to pass.

Prayer –
Lord God,
Thank You that You are Lord over everything that I am facing right now! My circumstances may feel as hopeless as death, but You are the God who raises the dead, and You will help me overcome. I let go of my own strength and I rest in You today!
Amen

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God’s Road to a Happy Marriage – 2

Written by prollo on October 3, 2011 — Leave a Comment

“Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband.” – 1 Corinthians 7:3

The average American has seven grand on their credit card. As a nation, we are up to our eyeballs in debt.

Yet here in our verse today, Paul would show us a debt we owe that perhaps we never knew we had. This debt is a debt of love that we owe to our spouse, and it’s what the word “affection” from our verse really means. This isn’t some smoochie kiss; it is D-E-B-T debt!

So Paul has the audacity to talk to us about debt. “Husbands, give your wives the debt you owe them. Wives, give your husbands the debt you owe them.” No one is left out of this arrangement. But so often it seems we get into our marriages with a you-owe-me attitude when what we really need is to get into marriage with an I-owe-you attitude.

Maybe this sounds crazy to some of you, but I really think this is an awesome thing. And Paul would write something in Romans 13 that helps us understand even more. He says, “Owe no one anything except to love one another.” You know, right now as a nation and many of us as individuals, we owe people everything except love. We owe our house, our car, our education, our entertainment systems, our computers, and thousands of dollars worth of little stuff put on credit cards. We have a list of creditors a mile long, but in all that debt do we see our debt of love?

And if we owe a debt of love to everyone, then how much more do we owe our spouse? The point here is that love is a debt that is worth having. This should be your biggest fight in marriage, is who can out-give the other in this debt of love.

I mean, listen, what is the proof of your love? Is it what you get? No, of course not. The proof of your love is what you give. “For God so loved the world that He gave,” right?

This means selfless service, laying our lives down for one another just as Christ came and redeemed His bride by laying His life down for us.

This is God’s road to a happy marriage, and there is nothing greater in the whole world.

Prayer –
Father God,
Thank You for loving me so much that You gave! If that’s what Your love is like, then that’s what my love should be like, too. Please fill me with Your love so that I can love my spouse as You have loved me!
Amen

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Lost in Passion – 2

Written by prollo on September 29, 2011 — Leave a Comment

“Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.” – 1 Corinthians 6:18-20

The bottom line, that’s what this is. This is the number one reason to guard your passions and follow God’s plan for your sexual relationships.

Which, by the way, is that you would have sexual relationships with only one other person – your spouse – and never before the two of you marry, but only after.

That’s God’s plan, but here’s the reason – your body is God’s temple.

Here’s how this works, because I think most of us these days don’t understand what a temple would have meant to people back in Paul’s day. People would build temples for their gods and then their gods would come live inside the temple, right? Well, to whom does that temple then belong? Does it belong to the people who built it? No. It belongs to the god who lives there.

It’s as if you are a landlord, and after giving the deed to God, He sends His Holy Spirit to live in your house. But then, for some reason, you continue acting as though you still possessed the deed, and you gave your home away to other people. Harlot after harlot begins to take up residence inside this home that you already gave to God.

All the harlots bring their own junk with them and spread it around your house until your once beautiful home looks more like a whorehouse than a temple. It gets hard to even find God in there amidst all the refuse, and all the while He’s wondering, “Wait, don’t I have the deed to this house? Aren’t I the one who has complete say of who gets to live here?”

But at the end of the day, the buck stops with you. You are responsible to maintain your body and decide what it will be.

So what do you choose today? Is your body a whorehouse or a temple? If you choose to make it a temple, then bow your knee to God today and let Him be Lord of His house.

Prayer –
Lord Jesus,
My body is Your temple, and I thank You that You live inside of me! I’m so sorry for acting like my body belongs to me. Be Lord over me today and always. You have complete say over how I use my body.
Amen

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Lost in Passion – 1

Written by prollo on September 28, 2011 — Leave a Comment

“Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.” – 1 Corinthians 6:18

“What’s the problem? It’s my body. I can do with it whatever I want to!”

Our culture is trying to justify their extramarital sexual relationships as somehow okay. You know, God’s Word on the matter should be enough for us. He said it. We do it. But there are reasons behind His instructions that are for our good, and I’ll give you three of them.

First, unguarded passion leads to pain. Paul had just finished telling the Corinthians that fornicators, adulterers, homosexuals, and sodomites will not inherit the kingdom of God. This is pain to the most extreme degree – eternal pain – but it’s not the only pain that comes with unguarded passion. The pain now is the hole we’re trying to fill with all those relationships, but no one can fill that hole except Jesus. Trying to fill the hole with relationships only deepens it as we break our heart over and over again.

Second, unguarded passion has a powerful progression. Do you remember the first time you held hands? It was pretty exhilarating that first time, but not for long after that. Soon you put your arm around the girl. Then there’s the first kiss, and of course that only revs your engine for more. If you never put up guards, you will quickly find yourself going all the way. And when you’ve gone all the way you’re as confused as ever, because it wasn’t the fulfillment you were looking for.

Third, unguarded passion leads to perversion. The Corinthians tried to justify their sexual hunger by comparing it to their hunger for food. “When I want food, I eat. When I want sex, I go get it.”

Paul responded, saying that God will one day do away with both food and your stomach, but your body and what you attach to it remains forever because you are the temple of God. Are you really going to go join yourself to a harlot? Are you really going to join yourself to someone who’s willing to give themselves to you without first committing to a lifelong marriage?

There is ruin on the road of unguarded passion. Don’t waste one of the greatest gifts God has given you. Guard yourself, choose Jesus, be whole, and be blessed.

Prayer –
Lord Jesus,
Your Word is very clear on the values I should hold regarding my sex life. I repent for the ways I have violated Your plan for my sexual relationships. Please help me stay on the right path and experience the blessings You have for when I follow You!
Amen

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The Losses of Lawsuits – 2

Written by prollo on September 27, 2011 — Leave a Comment

“If then you have judgments concerning things pertaining to this life, do you appoint those who are least esteemed by the church to judge? …Now therefore, it is already an utter failure for you that you go to law against one another. Why do you not rather accept wrong? Why do you not rather let yourselves be cheated?” – 1 Corinthians 6:4,7

I get this question probably every day. “Can I sue him? Can a Christian sue another Christian?”

Um, did you read the verses today? The obvious answer from scripture is no. I mean, you couldn’t have a clearer answer. No!

Here’s the deal, both sides lose before a verdict is ever read when you sue your brother or sister in Christ. Did you hear what Paul said? “It is already an utter failure for you.” How would you like to stand before God on that one someday – an utter failure!

“Well how about this one, pastor – Can a Christian company sue another Christian company?”

Give me a break. As if what applies to the one doesn’t apply to the one hundred? The Christian company has a witness to uphold the same way an individual does.

“Alright, well, can a Christian sue a non-Christian? Because I’ve got a claim, man, and I know I could win. I’ll even tithe off the winnings.”

You know, the Bible doesn’t say. But I’ll tell you what it does say. The Bible says, if you’re only going to do good to those who love you, then what’s the point? Even unbelievers do that. We’re set apart, proving that we are of Christ Jesus, when we love our enemies and do good to those who persecute us.

Even if you’re legally right and you would win your case in the end, so what? It’s no win in the end. The greater honor is for you to witness by offering the forgiveness and fellowship of Christ. Get this – we’re actually called not only to forgiveness and love, but to kindness. If it were me, I’d show love to all, especially to the ones who are hardest to love, whether they’re a believer or not.

The only time I see biblical justification for a lawsuit is defending yourself if someone sues you, and then you’d better get yourself some good counsel. But let me say this, your interests in that court are first about protecting and demonstrating your witness for Christ, then about making sure you receive justice.

The heart of God loves even at the cost of self. Let’s do the same.

Prayer –
Lord Jesus,
When I did You wrong, You didn’t sue me; You died for me. How can I not do the same thing? But sometimes it’s hard because I’ve been hurt, sometimes I’ve lost a lot. I trust You to give me justice, to heal my hurts, and to provide all my needs as I forgive those who’ve done me wrong.
Amen

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The Losses of Lawsuits – 1

Written by prollo on September 26, 2011 — Leave a Comment

“Dare any of you, having a matter against another, go to law before the unrighteous, and not before the saints? Do you not know that the saints will judge the world? …Do you not know that we shall judge angels?” – 1 Corinthians 6:1-3

How dare you?

Has anyone ever said that to you? It gets your attention, doesn’t it? That’s how Paul starts his whole discussion about lawsuits.

How dare you sue a brother or sister in Christ? How dare you drag the name of Jesus through the mud before an unbelieving judge? How dare you forget that you will one day judge both the world and the angels? How dare you?

This is strong language, so maybe you’re wondering what the big deal is. The deal is that your witness is at stake.

The world loves when the church airs its dirty laundry publicly. They love it because it gives them room to say, “See, Jesus didn’t do anything for you; you’re just like the rest of us.”

And you know the root of that, right? If they can imagine that we are just like everyone else, then there’s no reason for them to listen to us when we speak the gospel. There’s no reason for them to repent, to change their lives, to listen to God, to live for Him. If Christians act just as lost as the rest of the world, then why would the world see any need to believe in Christians’ God?

Before you know it, you’ve lost your witness before the world because, first, you can’t get along with your brothers and sisters in Christ, and second, when you do have an issue you look to the world for justice.

What are we supposed to do instead? Two things – First, on the occasion that you do have a dispute with a brother or sister in Christ, it is to be brought before fellow believers for justice. This is not a gossip group, but an elder with wisdom to issue a just verdict. Second, if there is no wise believer to whom you can turn, then prefer to be wronged. Yes, I said it, and Paul said it too; prefer to be wronged over seeking justice from unbelievers.

We need to realize that this shouldn’t even be an issue, that disagreements would be so prevalent among us that we would need to talk about this. But in the case that an issue needs solved, these are our instructions.

Let’s follow these and preserve our witness.

Prayer –
Lord Jesus,
You are our ultimate example of justice, forgiving us even as you hung on the cross. Please help me to follow in Your example, preferring to give mercy than to seek justice from unbelievers. And please raise up godly, wise leaders throughout Your body to lead us in justice.
Amen

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Written by prollo on September 24, 2011 — Leave a Comment
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